Writings & Musings

June 27, 2019
Why Can’t We Be Friends?
“Why won’t you be my friend?” Your eyes hold that question with such longing. You look young in this moment, like a child...
June 13, 2019
Hard Won Lessons from Being a Professional Cuddler
I almost didn’t make it as a professional cuddler. The work didn’t look the way I had imagined it at first, and I thought...
September 21, 2017
3 Ways to Get Better at Saying “No”
Hi, I’m Fei, and I’m a recovering Yes-a-holic. For most of my life, “No” has been a dirty word. I’ve always been a people...